"When I was younger, I hated him, but now, rewatching as an older person, he's wrong about the affair, but previous to that? Carrie was 100% the problem in their relationship. He was always very clear about what he wanted and what his boundaries were, and she steamrolled over them every single time... and even then, he still didn't leave her! SHE was the one leaving HIM, and then she gets upset because he married someone else. He's not nearly as bad as he's made out to be, and it blows my mind because it seems clear as day to me."
"No, she didn't leave him, he snuck off and married a much younger woman when he got back. But yeah, I get it...Carrie was the one who sucked. It was a toxic relationship."